Marriage Counseling is one of
the most effective ways to improve a marriage or relationship. Most of the
time what couples argue about has nothing to do with the problem
that they are experiencing. That is the reason that they cannot
solve the marriage problem themselves..
Marital problems are like a slow growing plant.
They start out as a seed, hardly noticeable and as the problems
grow the parts that show grow larger. Then they get fertilized
by daily issues and before long there is a plant growing right
inside our house that is so large and out of control that we
don't even know what it is anymore.
Out of control marriages get to look pretty
frightening if we just look at the outside.
Even the best gardeners have a hard time pruning
away the overgrowth of problems themselves.
Marriage counselors become a fresh set of eyes to
look at the problem and help a couple find the root of how this
all got started.
In our practice we have two counselors working
with a couple. (2 sets of new eyes). This is called
Conjoint Couples Psychotherapy and sometimes it may
include Family Therapy - depending on where the
couples roots have traveled.
The good news about couples counseling and
marriage counseling is that if
couples can find the seed quickly before it has a chance to take
root - things are so much easier to resolve.
The smaller the plant the easier the work.
The message is really - don't wait for marriage problems
or relationship problems
to become large and overgrown. Call as soon as you know there is
a problem growing between you and your partner.
Eventide Counseling Service is easy to get to from
Pelham, Salem, Manchester, Hudson, Nashua,
Derry, Chester
and surrounding New Hampshire towns.
